Monday, May 7, 2012

Dear Jonny

      Today I find myself captured in a place of loss. A friend of mine passed away yesterday and I have been reeling ever since I heard the news. Despite the fact that I only spent what seems like a moment with him, he made a tremendous impact on me. Like so many others have said, I keep waiting for this all to be proven a joke or a dream. I can't seem to make sense of it at all. Jonny was not just a good man, he was one of the best. Not only was he brave, having served during several deployments (some of which happened AFTER his initial honorable discharge), he was also fiercely loyal to those he held dear. He had a quick wit and the greatest sense of humor. Even when his joke was aimed at you, one couldn't help but join in the laughter. Although he probably wouldn't admit it himself, he was also quite a gentleman. I once saw him change a tire for a woman he didn't know in the scorching heat while several others just stood by and watched. I can only imagine what others who knew Jonny better must feel if his passing has this much of an effect on me. My prayers are with those that are feeling the loss of this great man. Rest in peace Jonny. RLTW